HOW TO ASK A GIRL OUT; 9 ADVANCED STEPS TO A YES





Ever spotted that dream girl and wondered how to ask her out on a date? Building that confidence to ask a girl out might really sound difficult, but by following this easy steps to ask a girl out on a date, a big yes is certain. Read: 25 Killer Actions to Boost Self Confidence

To ask a girl out I’ll say isn’t as tough as people say it is. Some would say just build confidence and go for it. Well that would help you ask her out but I doubt only that would help you get a yes, because they’ll say all you have to do is ask, right? But it’s not always that simple. To ask a girl out and get a certain “Yes”, you’re going to have to step up your, be bold, confident and follow the rules or forever be left to wonder what would have happened.

I have therefore given 10 rules to put in mind that would certainly help you get a yes when you’ve finally decided to ask that girl out. {Read: 14 Pickup lines She definitely can’t Resist }

  1. Change the view: This is one of the most rule that would determine if so you’ll get a yes. You have to ask yourself, to what view does she see me as? If a girl sees you as a friend, it’ll be very hard to get a yes when you ask her out. You then have to change the view she has of you to someone she can definitely call her boyfriend and not afraid to show off. At this point, it’ll be the question HOW? To definitely place an answer to this question, you have to know what she wants. {Read: 103 sweetest things to say to a girl and make her blush}

Know what she wants.  Knowing exactly the kind of guy she is interested in would give you a clue of what she would see as a boyfriend view. Though every girl no matter what she says she wants is always attracted to the basis, but knowing exactly what she wants would give you an upper hand in you becoming the guy she would see as exactly her boyfriend speculations.

The Question Now is what exactly are the basis?

  • Having Your Own life: Occupy yourself with what you love, your own hobbies and activities and let her see you and love you for it. Doing this, she will end up finding fun in your own activities and give her an open perception to a whole new angle of life.
  • The Right Amount Of Charisma: From the English dictionary, Charisma is defined as “personal or magnetism referring to the ability to influence people without logic”. Charisma in simple terms is the way you carry yourself, your Confidence in action.

Introduce yourself with confidence, loving what you do and who you are and she will have a good first impression of you

  • Your dress sense– To ask a girl out, your sense gives a lasting impression of you. Every girl wants to be able to show off her boyfriend. And you’ll agree with me nobody would gladly want to show off someone with a poor style of, you don’t need to get decked out in a suit and tie to ask a girl out, but make sure your clothes are clean and well-fit, and especially you are wearing deodorant.
  • A Good breath and a killing Cologne: I can’t emphasis this enough as this is really when you about to ask a girl out. Brush your teeth clean and keep your breath clean as bad breath is a big turn off for anyone. Also wear a killing cologne and by killing cologne a very nice deodorant, body spray or perfume. Never underestimate a good spell, it works magic!
  1. Build confidence.To ask a girl out, you have to be able to summon your courage, get confident, and not just getting confident, staying confident! Every girl loves a confident guy. And a big way to getting and staying confident is by not making a big deal of the whole thing, prove to her you confident by steadily making eye contact, speaking softly, not losing your line and this would intrigue her. Girls are from this world not Jupiter, for your information they crave nice guys asking them out, so don’t make a big deal of what isn’t. The next two should speak more of this. Finally, take a quick rehearsal with the mirror. Don’t worry buddy, you’ve got this!




  1. Always know “She wants you to ask”Despite the rhetoric you hear about the liberated woman, women still appreciate it when a guy asks her out on a date. They like when men take the initiative. I’ve heard lots of successful young professional women lament the fact that men don’t ask them out. They’re beautiful, smart, and charming, but don’t have a man. Be a man and ask these women out.
  1. You should always know “Asking is easy”.Asking a woman out on a date isn’t rocket science. When you ask, though, do it in person or over the. If you’re poking a woman you’re interested in on Facebook or instagram, you’ll lose credibility as a man and credibility really matters. Walk up to her and ask nicely, don’t make too big a deal from it.
  1. Kill Desperation: This is a major point as I have to emphasis that desperation is a “Yes” killer! To ask a girl out, you don’t want to seem desperate, you want it to seem all casual and fun. You should avoiding push it too fast neither should it be too slow, “Moderate” is the word! Remain Calm, Casual and Confident and see the magic. My Triple-C Rule *Winks*
  1. Keep the tone casual and fun.Don’t make the occasion seem like a big deal. Flirt a little! Relax, crack a joke, and break the touch barrier. Always remember it’s also a means to meet new faces and have fun yourself.
  2. For An extra, you might need to know if she is into you. Try and study her body language: The way she plays with her hair, stares at you, smiles, laughs at you joke, makes body contact with you and so much more. You might be actual sure of this signs so you have to ask her out still. Read Women’s Body Language For Flirting
  1. The Charismatic romance: To ask a girl out, she has to see you are romantic, not just romantic but with charisma. When I say romance with charisma I mean not the sad I am desperate romance, but the confident I good at this romance.

Even though you might not be the best at romance, make it seem like you good at it, not making it seem like you doing it out of desperation just cos you are interested in her.

Pick the best venue for your date, hire a limo to pick her up if you can * just saying*, take her on a really romantic date she wouldn’t dare to forget.

Let her know you are a confident romantic gentleman that knows how to treat her right. You doing this would spell this out boldly to her without you sending any sign of desperation.

  1. The spice of Jealousy: This rule only applies to when she feels she is the only one you’ve got which results in here occasionally taking you for granted. Get it on with another girl right in front of her face, which would pique her feelings. Make her know you are a catch, a one in a million gentleman, and she would be lucky to have you.
  1. Be Unpredictable: Everyone loves a little fun in mystery. Don’t take too far but try as much as possible to be unpredictable. When you are about to ask a girl out or even after which you have, don’t let her be able to guess your next move. Avoid using methods that are too cliché. Find your own ways and make it work for you. Take her out to a place she wouldn’t be able to guess you would. Appear to her step with a hired limo when she never even thought you would come with a bicycle. Let her being with you open a different love experience she has never been in. {Read: How to have sex like a total pro: For Men}



  1. Make memories: This is also very, when you finally get her to go out with you. Make sure your date gives her romantic memories she wouldn’t dare to forget.
  1. Be prepared for rejection.Keep your cool if she says no, smile and respond gracefully by saying, “No problem! Maybe another time.” Change the conversation to something else or leave if you’d rather not hang around. Act as if you don’t need her, because that sometimes will pique the interest of a girl. If she makes a face and yells, “Oh my gosh, no way!” this means that the girl is grossed out with you. Leave her alone and move on to another girl. For a player, if she makes the statement “Oh my gosh, no way!” move on to another girl right away, this would definitely pique her jealousy and get her thinking about you right away. Don’t get your feelings too hurt, this will leave you lifeless. Stay strong and move on.

The fact you move on might pique her interest, you never can tell.

I just want you to sit down and study this tips carefully. I know you like her and want things to go well between you two. I clearly understand that. Take a deep breath buddy, everything would be okay!

Bookmark this page and carefully study this and other articles that would give all you need. Summon courage and go for it!

YOU NEVER KNOW IF YOU DON’T TRY *Winks*

Your Relationship Doctor

Dami Rhythms.

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