GETTING TO BE THE CATCH – {A LADY’S MUST READ}

If you have trouble attracting men and getting a date, you may be unknowingly sending vibes that push men away. Men think differently than women, so you have to understand how the male psyche works in order to get his attention. Know what to do to grab his attention.

lookit’s not what you do, it’s what you are. When we meet a great guy, we women often try to do, do, do whatever we can to make him see what a great catch we are.  We’ll go out of our way to do things for a man, plan outings together, and sometimes even say yes to things he wants that go against what we want.   You can’t convince a man to fall in love.  But you can lead him there by connecting to his heart.  One of the most powerful ways to do this is to let yourself be guided by your feminine energy rather than your masculine.  Feminine energy is about being instead of doing.  When you focus on simply being in the moment and enjoying a man’s company and attention, you automatically shift your vibe so that he can step into the masculine, doer role.
To do that, you must first be open to receive. {You might like: How to make your boyfriend want you more than ever}

Play hard to get. The worst thing you can do is to smother a guy or appear desperate. Men are attracted to the thrill of the chase, so if you’re chasing after him, you’re taking away the challenge. Keep it low-key and keep him on the edge of his seat. Maintain your composure. Your outward indifference may make him want you more. {Check out: Know your man}

Be mysterious. A huge part of attracting men is letting them figure you out. Don’t talk his ear off about every detail of your life or your feelings. Carefully think about what you say and don’t fill the conversation with idle gabbing. Also, don’t make yourself available all the time. Allow him to wonder where you are and what you’re doing.

Display intelligence and depth. Don’t say “like” and “um” in every sentence. Intelligence is sexy. A smart woman who knows what she wants and how to get it will attract men everywhere she goes. Displaying your intellect reveals that you have depth. This will attract men more effectively than coming across as dim. {Read: How to calculate love compatibility}

funBe fun, in ways that men think are fun. This rule of attraction seems simple enough, but so many girls get it wrong. Don’t be too much of a stereotypical “girl.” Be able to let your hair down and tell jokes, watch sports, play video games or poker with him and try to enjoy the things that he enjoys. He’s not interested in holding your purse while you shop. Nor does he care what happened on last week’s episode of Days of Our Lives. Hang out at sports bars with him. He’ll want you even more.

Take care of your appearance. A woman who takes care of herself will attract men easier than one who doesn’t. Shower with nice-smelling bath products. Use a feminine scented deodorant. Brush your teeth well and always keep mints and gum on hand. If you talk to a guy and your breath is less than fresh, he’s not going to notice anything else about you. Keep your hair neat and clean and take pride in your looks. Use a perfume that smells sweet and sensual.

 

Dress to skip a heart. Dress in clothes that make you feel sexy. You don’t have to look like a tramp, just keep in mind the styles that are attractive to men. Wear feminine clothing that accentuates your figure and hugs your body just right. Use the colours red or pink to your advantage; remember, men are visual.

 

Flirt with body language. Lean in close to him when you talk. Touch his hand or shoulder during conversation. Smile and be genuinely interested in what he has to say. Turn your body toward him when you two are in close proximity. Don’t make these flirting techniques over-exaggerated and noticeable, however. Let your natural flirtatiousness shine. {Check out: How to approach an attractive guy}

 Puts yourself first. The most important thing to remember when you are dating a man and want him to realize how wonderful you are is to put your happiness first. If you love taking a dance class every Thursday night, don’t give it up just because he’s in the picture and you don’t want him to think you’re not interested.  Letting him know you have a life before him actually makes him more attracted to you – not just because you’re not about to drop everything for him, but because people who are passionate about their interests are interesting people!
So, tell him, “It would feel so great to see Thursday, but I have my dance class that night, and I love it.  I’m free Tuesday or Friday.”  Then ask him what he thinks.  It might feel a little scary to do this with a guy you really like, but the right guy will gladly re-arrange his plans to see you.  Why?  Because you’ve just proven you’re a great catch he has to win.

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