Self-confidence is an attitude on its own; it is the way you view yourself, it relates to self-assuredness in one’s personal judgment, ability, power etc. Having confidence is about being sure of your actions and appearance. You might consider yourself a confident person, but when confronted with an intimidating and beautiful woman, that confidence might disappear. Appearing confident to women is a fine line men must balance. Displaying too much confidence could be considered cocky, which is can be a turn off to women. In this articles are steps on how to appear confident to ladies.
Dress attractively – No one is more conscious of your physical appearance than you are. When you look good, it changes the way you see yourself and interact with people. Looking nice to the point of attracting others to your dressing boosts self-confidence, Wear clothing that is both comfortable and classy. Pick a style and stick with it from your tie to your shoes. Showcasing your personality exhibits the confidence you have in your own self. Trim your beard, mustache, goatee, etc. so that it appears clean and put together. Having a clean face and facial hair can make you feel fresh and give you more confidence than if you just rolled out of bed.
Speak slowly and avoid rambling. Try to slow your speech down by at least 50 percent. When you’re nervous, your voice tends to raise an octave and you begin speaking faster. Focus on being calm when speaking. If you think about each word before you say it, you will slow down automatically. This can also prevent you from misspeaking and having to put your foot in your mouth during conversation.
Improve your posture and the way your walk- you can also gain confidence by the way you walk, funny enough right? The way you walk views you mood (tired, afraid, ashamed, confident etc.). By improving the way you walk, walking more confidently, walking like you are the catch, thinking of yourself as the dream of every girl, the dream of every guy. With these you’ll get a sense of superiority.
Keep steady eye contact. Look at the woman whom you are talking to or listening to for as long as you or she is speaking. Men who aren’t confident tend to have wandering or shifty eyes. When a woman speaks directly to a man with little confidence, the man usually has a hard time returning a strong gaze. This shouts nervousness.
Smile often. Practice a genuine smile in the mirror. A genuine smile is not too cheesy or large. It feels comfortable when you do it and doesn’t come off as creepy to others. A genuine smile shows confidence; and a genuine laugh is even better.