Approach a Girl For the First Time: 10 Things You miss out



How to approach a girl for the first time! What to say when approaching a girl for the first time! Most guys find it difficult finding what to say or how to talk to a girl for the first time or how to walk up to a girl for the first time.

Approaching a girl in public isn’t as difficult as it seems, girls are equally humans, they have feelings too even if its approaching a girl you like for the first time. Walking up to a girl for the first time would get much more easier if you follow these guidelines.

Being able to pay attention to her body language and respect her personal boundaries, there is no reason to come off as creepy. The most important thing you can do is be respectful and follow these steps. Walking up to a girl you’ve never spoken to before is like taking a dip in an icy water. It makes you nervous. But as a guy, knowing how to approach a girl is one of the most important things to know in the dating world. Now I’m not going to make this any more difficult that you already assume it to be. Yes, talking to a girl who’s a stranger is not easy.  But then again, if you know just how to do it without appearing like you’re picking her up, you’ll realize just how easy the whole game can be.

Be Confident.

    Being confident is the first step to approaching a lady in public, you just have to summon all the courage you’ve got and walk. For real, I’ll say there is really no big deal in this. Always remember that she has not met you before, probably not seen you before and it would be nice if you make a very good first impression. {You might like: How to build self- confidence in 4 easy steps}

 Make eye contact. If you see someone you’d like to meet, try to make eye contact before talking to her. Once you catch her eye, try to maintain eye contact. If you repeatedly make eye contact with someone, it could be a sign that she wants you to approach her. Three glances from a girl might signal that she’s interested. Why are eyes so powerful? Science seems to suggest that eye contact activates our brain’s reward center, the ventral striatum. What does this mean? Our DNA is telling us that someone staring at you is cause for celebration! Smile. A friendly smile is a great way to show someone that you’re interested in them. If she returns the smile, that’s a good sign that she might be interested. Once you’ve exchanged a few glances and a smile, check her body language. This will give you a better idea if she’s actually interested.

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Check body language. While reading another person’s body language, male or female, is NOT an exact science, there are definitely a few behaviors to look for that will signal that the person is not interested in engaging in conversation. Respect the girl’s right to be left alone.

Is she facing away from you? Are her arms crossed? Is she listening to music, or reading a book? Is she frowning? Is she specifically looking away from you? While not perfect indicators, expressions and body language like this probably means leave her alone. Body language is not everything. Women are taught from childhood that they must be pleasant no matter what. If you are going to approach her, pay attention to how she reacts and what she says

{Check out: Reading women’s body language for flirting}




Use the best Pickup Lines. Checkout my Article on 14 Pickup lines she definitely can’t resist. It would give great tips on how to select your pickup lines and talk to a girl for the first time.

Start with a Compliment

Using a compliment could be actually a very good head start in approaching a girl for the first time, you could compliment her looks, dress, shoes etc. But a compliment of a part of her body like her eyes could come after…girls love that by the way.

 Use the Compliment to Strike a Conversation

Starting a conversation related to your initial compliment could be a very good idea.  For example, when complimenting her on her dress, talk about the colour being your favorite and how much it looks so good on her.

Avoiding the Boring Factor

When talking to a girl for the first time, one of the worst things you can do (along with creeping her out and insulting her) is boring her. First of all, if you are boring, she will have absolutely no interest in getting to know you further. Second of all, if you respond with the exact same things that she has heard a zillion times before, she will assume that you are like every other guy she has met before. And you don’t want to be lumped into that pool!

Stop Interrogating!

It is perfectly okay to approach a girl by asking a question, and this approach is especially good if you are meeting women in places which aren’t social by nature (such as a bookstore or library). But you’ve got to make sure that the initial question leads to conversation, or else you are just going to end up interrogating the poor girl!

Keeping the Conversation Moving

So, you’ve approached a girl and she has responded to your initial pickup line.   Now, you’ve got to keep the conversation going.   This can seem like a daunting task, but there are some tricks which are sure to keep any conversation moving forward in a way which is comfortable for the both of you.{Read: How to ask for a girl’s phone number}

  • Make her talk. Find out what she is interested in, her hobbies, what she loves doing at her leisure or a profession and make her talk all about it.
  • Show interests in her topics no matter how boring it may be. Girls love good listeners.
  • Never bore her with your stories, make sure she is actively involved in the conversation.
  • Try keeping eye contact when talking with a nice smile.

 The group of girls.

Walk up to her with your gaze fixed on her confidently. Walk right into the herd, but look straight at her and only her. Look at anyone else, and the envious friends would pounce on you with snide remarks because you didn’t pick them to flirt with.

 

Hey… I really don’t mean to interrupt you girls, but could I speak with you for a minute? I just won’t be able to forgive myself if I left this place without getting to know you…

 

Use any line you want and it’ll work as long as you say it firmly, but remember to make her feel special by saying something that reveals how badly you want to get to know her. And unless her friends seem to take your side by nudging her towards you or by smiling widely, completely avoid looking at them. You’d only be asking for trouble.




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Buy her a drink. This is something that can work very well at a bar, as long as you’ve already built the eye staring up and roused her interest. Buy her the same drink she’s already having, and ask the waiter to offer it to her. The waiter will probably drop a corny and grand message like “the gentleman sitting over there would like to offer you this drink…”

When she accepts the drink and looks towards you smiling, that’s your cue. Don’t wait any longer or she’ll think you’re a coward. But if you buy her a drink without building the connection first, you’ll just come off as a creepy guy. {Check out: Asking a girl out (Easy steps to a yes)



 The twosome. If there are just two girls, walk right up to them while staring at the girl you like. If the girl’s interested in you too, her friend will slip away quietly with an excuse. But even if the friend decides to stay, just introduce yourself and say something similar to the line used in #3. But this time, include the girl’s friend in your conversation and make her feel good about herself too. But don’t forget to keep the focus on the girl you like! Keep these conversation moves in mind and it’ll definitely do you good. But if you want to make sure it works all the time, build the tension and the mystery first with your glances and your eye contact. You’ll always end up impressing the girl even before you approach her.


For Personal Counselling on how to relate this to your personal life, you can always reach me DAMI RHYTHMS at damirhythms@woolounge.net

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