How to Start, Maintain and Make a Long Distance Relationship Work

A lot of people are facing the problem of how to make their long distance relationships work. Long distance relationships as a normal relationship are definitely risky, and if you are unfortunate enough to be far away from your significant other, the prospect of potentially ruining your relationship can seem daunting. Just because long distance relationships are difficult, doesn’t mean they’re impossible. Simple adjustments to your attitude and lifestyle can help you keep your loved one in your life.
I have divided this topic into 4 main sections which covers at least a lot of questions you might have on long distance relationships. So you can skip other sections and move to the sections you would likely want to understand. I divided the section as follows:
a.} what is a long Distance Relationship?
b.} Do Long distance relationships work or lasts?
c.} Are you starting out a long Distance Relationship or already in it? Then how do you keep a Long distance relationship or make it work?
d.} Long Distance Relationship Activities; Sexy, Romantic and a little bit Kinky ideas to keep you going!

What is a long Distance Relationship?
The definition of a long distance relationship is quite self-explanatory as it is a relationship in which two people physically distant apart are in a relationship.
For me, physical distance isn’t all that makes you in a long distance relationship, not bring able to have physical time for each other can put you under the same pressure as a long distance relationship. For Instance; you are in a relationship with a boy in the same city as you are and you can only get to see him once in a month. You really need to be worried about your relationship as there is tendency for your relationship to face ultimately same issues as a long distance relationship. So if you have a friend who thinks there relationship is quite fine just because there aren’t distance apart from their lover but despite that fact, they refuse to pay attention to giving physical time to their relationships, you might want to send them a link to this article right away.

Do Long distance relationships work or lasts?
Oh yes! The funny fact is that a long distance relationship has the tendency to last long. Why did I say this? You could be in a bad long distance relationship and still go 2-3yrs. You could get in an argument with your lover and be able to ignore him/her for a month and you still get back together. Trust me! It’s not that easy to try all these with a relationship where you see regularly. All I’m trying to say is that a long distance relationship can stand the test of time!
Does it work? Oh yes! It does. Couple of years ago, i was in a long distance relationship and it worked just fine. Was even a lot less stress than a physical one but it ended. And now you’ll ask, if it was easy and it worked why did it end? And now I’ll tell you that just as a relationship where you regularly spend time with your lover, the long distance relationship equally needs a consistent amount of work put in it to make it work. No relationship works on autopilot! You have to constantly put in effort to pull it through! For true love, distance isn’t a barrier.
Are you starting out a long Distance Relationship or already in it? Then how do you keep a Long distance relationship or make it work?
1. Understand what you have. Ask the important questions right away to make sure you are both clear on the nature of the relationship. Naming your relationship (dating, seeing each other, boyfriend-girlfriend, engaged} can be difficult and can be an awkward question to ask, but will save you a great deal of heartache and misunderstanding down the line. Define what you are in. Some people would meet a guy/girl over a school break and have something shallow with them over that period of time and believe it would all work out when they are back to school. First thing is to sit with your partner and define what you have, decide whether you want to put your mind and make what you have work.
2. Be positive. Staying positive and not focusing on the negative aspects of a long-distance relationship is essential to keeping your relationship blooming. Being away from your sweetie is not all bad news. Use the opportunity of your personal time to pursue your interests and hobbies as well as your career objectives. Another positive point is that long distance dating pushes both of you to be more creative, to communicate better since you don’t have “face-to-face” time and to test (and express) your feelings.
3. Communicate in some way every day, more than once if possible. Since you won’t be seeing each other, it’s important to establish and maintain an emotional connection. These don’t always have to be long, in-depth conversations. Tell each other about your little triumphs and tragedies. Ask on for advice. Use an instant messenger program or VoIP for real-time chat, or web cams for that visual connection. E-mail is great, so make sure you use it, especially if long-distance phone calls put a strain on your budget. We are know we all know we are in the 21st century and there are hundreds of instant messaging platforms that can help you achieve this aim, so make good use of it.
4. Avoid Excessive Communications: Don’t go too much and don’t go too rarely, moderate communication is the best. Let me put it this way, instead making it too much of calls, do a lot of texting (everyday) and make call time/face time like 3-4 times a week. The main reason I’m giving this point is that excessive communication can inflict the boredom syndrome. When you leave out time between conversations, you are able to pile up enough stories and eventually not have to run out of what to say. But don’t let the time frame you leave between your communications be too much so you won’t be drawn apart.
5. Sweet talk: Shower each other with a lot of compliments, don’t be afraid to express your feelings in the most way you can. Sweet talk your partner in all ways you can. Send them a romantic text in the middle of an hectic day they are having. Don’t be scared to express your love in the best way possible.
6. Work around your schedule. Do your best to maintain communication, even if one of you gets busier than the other. If you are the busy one, warn your partner that you may have limited time, and try to send at least a quick email or text, or a share a brief phone call. If you are the not-as-busy person, take advantage of the time by picking up a new hobby, getting in shape, reading a new book, etc. Flexibility is very important.
7. Visit often. Try to make the time to visit each other as often as possible or as often as your budget permits. A relationship cannot thrive if the only thing you have is the phone call. You need to see each other in person at every opportunity. Visit on a regular schedule if you can
8. Send Gifts: Seize every opportunity you have to get each other gifts and really nice stuffs, this helps build your relationship in a way that is more than just words.
9. Create trust. Just as with traditional relationships, trust is incredibly important. Avoid temptations. Try your best to be faithful, lest you destroy the trust on which your relationship relies. Avoid putting yourself in situations where you would be tempted, and let your partner know that there’s nothing to worry about. *Don’t be too anxious or jealous if you don’t always know what they are doing. A little space is harmless and will definitely keep things calm.
10. Get Kinky: When there is need to, get kinky! Have a dirty truth or dare game over the phone, sex chat when you have too, make sure you or partner aren’t lacking the sexual attentions you need.

Long Distance Relationship Activities; Sexy, Romantic and a little bit Kinky ideas to keep you going!
– Regular Super romantic text messages
– Regular Dirty and Sexy text messages
– Regular romantic chats
– Regular Dirty Chats
– Once in a while texting games
– Sex Chatting
– Sex Chatting {Video Chat}
– Regularly sending your partner gifts
– Make time out of the difficult to go on a physical romantic date once in a while.
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