How to Kiss really Good Step by Step for the First Time

A lot of people wonder exactly how to kiss or let me say “what makes up a good kiss”. They wonder if they are doing it right or wrong, if they are better or worse. Everyone wants to be a good kisser!




Learning how to kiss like a total pro would require you to learn about some very specific insights and actions. I wouldn’t say it’s that tough but paying attention to these little details actually make a good kiss; your sensitivity, method of approach, romance and a whole lot more builds up vibes for a kiss to actually look and feel good. (You Might Like: 50 Kamasutra sex positions)
In the next one thousand words or thereabout, I would give insights to how you can make your kiss the best and unforgettable one. Before moving into what and how exactly to play the game, there are certain things you would want to put in mind:
Sensitivity: The act of being sensitive is what I call knowing when and what feels good and knowing when exactly to do it over again. You have to pay attention to little details, knowing what you did that gave him/her a pique in interest. Sensitivity plays a big role in the act of romance. It paves the way to being a pro in romance. Learn to pay attention to what you are doing when next you kiss someone and you would be able to figure out what gets them on the most and use it to your advantage.
Speed: If you really want to show you are really good at kissing then you have to take things steady. Trust me! It is more romantic and it would definitely show your partner you are good at it. Rough and too much speed isn’t just the thing when it comes to giving a good kiss.




Build Anticipation: The fact is everyone makes a bigger deal of what they anticipate, than what they don’t. Pause in the process of kissing him/her, give that sexy look and gently stroke your partner’s hair keeping direct eye contact on him/her and he/she would surely skip a heartbeat. Build the right amount of anticipation and your kiss would mean a lot more {Checkout: how to get a guy’s Attention}

Fresh Breath: Nobody wants to kiss a mouth with bad breath! That is just Ewwww. Always have a mint gum or something with you to keep your breath fresh always and you might also want to keep a lip balm too to always make sure your lips isn’t too dry. Practice good dental hygiene. If you know you are about to kiss someone, take a second to brush your teeth or at least rinse out your mouth with water. Always have breath mints or mint-flavored gum with you if you think there is a chance you might kiss someone while you are out. If you want to be subtle, you can quickly suck on a breath mint or chew gum for a minute in the bathroom, so you don’t make it too obvious that you’re ready to kiss.

Keep your lips soft. A soft, smooth, and slightly-moist mouth is ideal for kissing. Before you move in, you should make sure your lips aren’t chapped or dry so your partner isn’t distracted or put off by the state of your lips. You really want to keep all the above points in mind, as each play a vital role in kissing real good.
Taking all this points in mind we would now move into the basis of how exactly to initiate a kiss.

Make eye contact. Gaze deeply into the other person’s eyes. If you want to make your intentions extra clear, slowly move your gaze to his or her lips, then back up to the eyes. You can even make intense eye contact, break it for a few seconds, and then look back at the person. This is a way of showing the person you want to kiss and that you’re pleasantly overwhelmed at the sight of him or her.

Tilt your head slightly to one side. Meeting head-on will result in bumping noses. Instead, just tilt your head slightly to the left or right. If you notice the other person going in one direction, pick the opposite. Don’t put too much pressure on yourself to do this perfectly. If you and your partner end up kissing each other head-on and bumping noses a bit, then you’ll naturally adjust your heads into a more comfortable position, where your noses aren’t in the way.

Lightly brush your lips over the other person’s. Use feather-light pressure at first, so that your lips are just barely grazing over your partner’s. This builds more anticipation and excitement than diving straight into a full-on kiss. This also signals to your partner that you may be wanting more without being too forward about it.

Keep it Gentle: Keep it gentle as you close your lips against your partners’. You want to caress the other person’s lips gently and soothingly to give that pique of interest. You should always remember, “Kissing is all about being able to pleasantly massage the other person’s lips in a romantic and soothing way”.

Slightly Increase the intensity: Slightly increase intensity as the kiss goes on; this builds another level of excitement.

Explore with your tongue. If the other person seems interested, go ahead and start French kissing for real. Remember to keep your tongue in motion and your touches light. First, just slowly slide your tongue into your partner’s mouth. You can either begin by placing it above or below your partner’s tongue, or even move it around the tongue a bit if you’re feeling bolder. Just make sure your partner’s tongue is reciprocating your actions so you’re not just kissing a limp tongue, or the romance will dissipate pretty quickly. Read: Sex:10 Ways to have Sex and Hit the G-Spot




Slowly caress with your teeth: Doing this you should really avoid your teeth clashing with you partners. By “slowing caressing with your teeth”, you want to pause and use your teeth to slowly caress your partner’s lip using a feather-light pressure. You have to put her lip in between your upper and lower incisors and pull a little, remember using a feather-light pressure.
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I’m Dami Rhythms, and it was a pleasure having you on my blog! Please take your time to check out more of my blog posts. Feel at home!



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