When he takes you for granted: The 16 things to do.



Finding yourself in the position where a guy you into or your boyfriend takes you for granted could hurt a lot. Understanding what to do when he takes you for granted might seem so complex. The truth is, every guy has the potential to be the perfect boyfriend, just as soon as he learns to follow the rules.

All of us take relationships for granted eventually, even if we don’t intend to at the beginning. Can you really blame yourself or your partner when either of you don’t remind each other about it? You should know these is beyond knowing how to ignore your boyfriend when he takes you for granted.

If you want to have a happy relationship and a boyfriend who appreciates you and does not take you for granted, don’t compromise on your wants and desires in the relationship just to make him feel happy. He’ll start to accept you for who you are, instead of realizing how understanding, accommodating and genuinely nice you actually are.


Sacrificing your happiness for someone is a good sign, but only if it’s mutual. There’s a thin red line between sacrificing and suffering in a relationship.{Read: 50 Mind Blowing Birthday Gift to get your boyfriend}




Understand these tips on making your boyfriend not take you for granted and want you more than ever and use them. You’ll see the difference in no time.

  1. Look good in his arms.Let’s talk about pleasing your man with appearances first. Most Guys are shallow, and the physical appearance of their girlfriends plays a big part in there ego and his desire to be with you. Learn to Look stunning and have eyes turn towards you when you’re in his arms. When people start to clearly see you as hot and a catch, trust me! Taking you for granted won’t be an option for him.
  2. Respect yourself.Your boyfriend is not better than you. Falling in love is a mutual experience between lovers. Respect your boyfriend but at the same time, have an ego and be confident of yourself. If you truly respect yourself, your boyfriend can’t help but respect you and admire you.
  3. Spend time with your own friends.Occasionally make your own plans. Go out with your own friends and feel good about yourself, be it in having a good conversation or attracting the attention of another cute guy. And remember to avoid putting all these in his face, show him you love him more than anyone else and still casually have your fun. Believe in yourself, and remember that you’re a catch. And the best part, he’ll miss you more when you aren’t available at his beck and call.
  4. Have your own life. Your boyfriend is only a part of your life, not all of it. If you’re always with him or he finds you available all the time, he’ll only take you for granted. Get busy by doing what you love, start a business and make money for yourself. Seeing you have a life on your own and not dependent for everything would make him appreciate you better.
  5. Be a wildcat with fiery passion.Don’t be afraid to try new things in bed. If you want to know how to make your boyfriend want you sexually, don’t be predictable in bed. Try new things and don’t let bedtime get boring. Enjoy a good time in bed and take pride in your passion and interest in exploring it.
  6. Be a smart girl. Be aware of the world around you, be it on the news or in current affairs. Men always think they’re more intelligent and aware. Prove him wrong, he’ll worship you and take you more seriously. Don’t do this by trying to make him feel dumb and overshadow his answers with your smart ones. Gently and confident prove your smartness.
  7. Play hard to get when he takes you easy. Don’t let your boyfriend ever take you for granted. If you ever feel like he’s taking you lightly, put him in place. Play hard to get a little, prove to him you are a catch and would always be! It’ll scare him and also make him realize that you’re not someone to be taken for granted. Try as much as possible not to also overdo it.

  8. Display PDA. Men love it when their girl shows her appreciation in public, when their girl publicly displays affection {P.D.A}. It makes them feel desired and lucky. Wrap your arm around him or place your hand on his cheek in appreciation when he’s being nice. He’ll be a lot nicer and he’ll be happy to have a girlfriend like you.{Checkout: 14 Insanely sweet things to say to your boyfriend}



  9. Walk away if he disrespects you. Snub him or avoid his calls when he disrespects you. He’ll be too scared to take you lightly. You’re not throwing a tantrum by doing this, you’re letting him know that you have self-respect.
  10. Follow your own dreams. Be passionate about life and your own ambitions. Your boyfriend will never respect you or desire you if all you do is sit wide eyed and stare when he talks about his ambitions and dreams, and have nothing to share in return.

Six things to avoid if you want your boyfriend to never take you for granted.

  1. Don’t be too easy to get.Don’t always be available for him anytime he calls you especially when you know he is taking you lightly and for granted. For these occasions, don’t change your plans just to be with him. Let him know that you have a life too, and he needs to take you more seriously if he wants you by his side.
  2. Don’t be a pushover.If he changes plans in the last minute and leaves you in the middle of a date to hang out with his friends, or cancels a date for silly reasons, don’t accept such behavior. If he walks away, call another cute guy and hang out with him just to get back at him. It’s the only way he’ll learn.
  3. Don’t be eager to please him.Pleasing each other should be mutual. If you find that you’re the only one indulging in sweet gestures while he just behaves like a slob, put an end to it and make him work for your attention all over again.
  4. Don’t be the first one to make up all the time. This is especially important if it’s not your own fault. If your boyfriend’s taking you for granted, and you find yourself being the one who has to make up all the time, ignore him for a while or give him a cold shoulder. If he really cares, he’ll swallow his pride and come back crawling.
  5. Don’t be clingy and needy.Show off your independence even if you’re just idle and sitting at home. Appear like you’re a girl who can sort her own affairs. He should know that spending even a few minutes with you is a privilege! {You Might Like: 9 Ways to Plan an Awesome Dinner date}



  6. Don’t be a bad damsel in distress.Men love a damsel in distress, they want women depending and coming to them for help but only if you play the part in the right manner. Make him feel like a man, ask him for help when necessarily due but don’t always go trailing him for help.



Those are my simple 16 Tips to making your boyfriend want you more than ever and never take you for granted. Bookmark this page and carefully follow tips step after the other. Also drop your comments in addition or oppositions to the points made in this posts.

BEST REGARDS

DAMI RHYTHMS

EDITOR, WooLounge.net

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